Vast

Source : http://blueserver.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=31206

Learn to love and learn to let go, Look above and what It shows? You see, the sky is very vast, and so is this world and its population. Our affection towards somebody might last long, but we have assorted emotions in ourself, don't let affection take it all. Yes, affection might have all the other feelings in it as well, but the package is not that good if you can't afford it.

It sure hurts more or less when you saw the girl you like with her boyfriend. But what is more important is that you would be able to cheer her up when she is sad and be able to at least communicate with her. Being unable to talk to the one you like might be hellish, and it takes away you last chance of come back in succeeding a relationship.

What is that much of contrast between a friend and a boyfriend if you can think from another perspective? Yes, a boyfriend sure does have more advantages compared to a friend, but still, it is all about showing her your care. Though this world is realistic, this is not too much dramatic. We don't think about ONE SINGLE THING 24 hours a day no matter how sad, how hurt or how pain we are. Some people looks very sad for a long time because they simply couldn't abandon the feeling that switching between emotions instantly instead of gradually looks awkward. We tend to think about other thing when we're supposed to concentrate in thinking how sad we are, no matter what. The matter is that whether you're optimist enough to look cheerful again as fast as possible.

Think clearly, feel freely, and you shall see the sun shining brighter than usual. Don't bind yourself to only one thing. Human tend to seek more than one to bind to in their life.

"Pain struck only when your memories reminded you, it vanish when the memories are out of the view."

Cheers,
Dz