...love

Source:[fu]dark

Hmm... to think about love in the idealistic way such as that love will always be sweet and smooth all the way to eternity is a bunch of immature crap. Love as how we see in drama/movie or any other sources are always made in a idealistic way. How they meet under the arrangement of fate, how they love other forever and ever in peace in all those fairy tales, they're not practical. Reality is not cruel, it just have some extra taste in it.

Human often have affection towards more than one person. At first you might think that I'll only pay attention my girlfriend/boyfriend and not any other. But when you really ask yourself, I believe that sometimes you'll look at other. No matter how little it is. Don't take love as all, it is just part of all. Don't throw all your feeling and devotion into it. Eternity is a funny word, used on us who have limited time. However, the opposition will usually be flattered when you said that you're going to be with them for eternity

Love is merely a deeper definition of care, that usually make one more responsible and stuff, especially when we first start to love someone. Love will fade, completely or not, is another matter. When two person had been together for a long time, no doubt that they will not feel as good as when they first start to date/come together. They might flashback about what happened when they first date and say about how good they feel at that time. But well, they don't really get the feeling back anyway, they're just telling you what they remember from that time, or the feeling they're now.

Human is a social animal, they need a partner around. Be caring and patient, and may you find a partner that suits you well. Sweet, sour, bitter or whatever doesn't matter, as long as you all still have each other to taste them together. Take in the count of life's pressure and try to suit yourself with it. Being tolerative is a good way to maintain a relationship. (Don't take those kiddo love in count, they usually doesn't have that much of affection. Do they?)